My boss is very hard to handle
The Question…
Hi Sunil, I am working at trading company in Dubai, Here my boss is very hard to handle? He use to shout in bad words, I am unable to observe, I am in search of new job at garment print industry.
- Jeff
Sunil’s Answer…
Thanks for the email Jeff…
You’re not the only person in this situation.
It’s important to understand that we all create our reality. You have to remember that the formula
BE – DO – HAVE
…it’s always in effect.
The question you need to ask yourself is who are you being that is making you do things that have the result you are getting.
Now I am not saying that you boss is correct in shouting, but you have to analyse how you are reacting to this. How are you being?
If you’re not happy with the situation you have to say so or take some action. Too many people go through life letting themselves be trampled on.
let me give you an example…If you hit a dog with a stick, and the dog wags it’s tail, the dog has just given you the message that it’s OK to hit it. If the dog had turned around and bit you, then the message is clear “don’t hit me”.
We all teach others how to work with us… think about what message you giving others that keeps them shouting at you!
It’s hard I know… but rather than biting back… like you are doing .. move on.
Just a word of warning here… changing your situation will not change your behaviours. If you find that this is a pattern in your life where your boss shouts at you then you really need to look inside of you and find out who are you being that is attracting this into your life.
Jeff, there are lessons in everything for us. Look for the lesson for you in this.
I wish you all the best.
Sunil